“Rowling wrote Hermione to eschew stereotypes. She doesn’t end up with the hero; she is never there to function as Harry’s love interest. She prefers Arithmancy to Divination in school. Hermione is also a total badass, despite her prim and proper reputation. (…) So often, female characters are allowed to be aggressive or rebellious, but in exchange are stripped of any traditionally feminine qualities and instead are forced to pick up traditionally masculine traits. However, Hermione is never made to do that. Most notably, she is written to be highly logical AND emotionally expressive, a combination not commonly afforded to most of today’s leading ladies.”—
Always have sex with a consenting partner if you want to have sex with them and are comfortable doing so.
Don’t confuse wanting to tell people you’ve had sex, with wanting to have sex. If you just want to tell people you’ve had sex, just lie, make someone up, or find someone else who wants to tell people they’ve had sex, and lie together. You can lie more convincingly if you spend some alone time together, you can spend this time watching movies, playing charades, eating cereal, or whatever.
Don’t have sex if you don’t want to have sex.
Don’t let anyone tell you you don’t want to have sex, if you do.
Remember that having had sex does not make you special.
Remember that not having had sex does not make you special.
Remember that having had sex does not make you abnormal.
Remember that not having has sex does not make you abnormal.
Sex is not an Xbox achievement.
Abstinence is not an Xbox achievement.
You’re allowed to experiment.
You’re allowed to be kinky.
You’re allowed to ask questions and give advice during sex, and you’ll have better sex if you do.
Not having had sex doesn’t invalidate your gender or personhood.
Having had sex doesn’t invalidate your gender or personhood.
No one is obligated to have sex with you, no, not even if you heard they blew the whole football team and then ate out all the cheerleaders. No, not even if they actually did that. Everyone is allowed to say no to you, regardless of their sexual history.
You are not obligated to have sex with anyone, even if you blew the entire football team and ate out all the cheerleaders. You are allowed to say no to everyone, regardless of your sexual history.
No one is obligated to say no to anyone either. Everyone is allowed to say yes to whoever they want.
Use protection, seriously guys.
This has been a public service announcement from your friendly neighbrohood prodomme.
Okay sleep time because I’m visiting awesome family and I want to shower in the morning and also because I’m a little tired and because no one is posting anything right now even though I know all of you tricky bastards stay up way past midnight and reblog and post lots of shit because when I wake up I have to go through it all but I’ll worry about that later so night